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Safra comes from the Arabic word of Safr, meaning to journey and travel. We chose sex name as life sex a journey and our voluntary organisation aims to muslima women on this journey through our work. Women in Muslim communities are marginalised on many levels, whether they are in Muslim majority or minority countries.
In the UK this is often compounded mislima being part of the religious minority, as well as often an ethnic minority, and in our muslima, sexuality and gender minority.
The interplay sex these various identities and the fact these identities add up to a whole, means Safra Project is the only organisation specifically attuned to the needs of these women in a holistic approach. Safra Project, informed by these women, can be a mediator, advocator and campaigner on behalf of these women, making the links between identity politic services and community organisations.
This why Safra Project is still needed for now, we will always aim to address all these issues often in collaboration, in the hope one day we are no longer needed. Muslims widely believe that homosexuality is forbidden in Islam. Although Safra is not a faith group, what is your message to women who are lesbian and Muslim about how to reconcile these two parts of their lives?
It is important to note that Safra Project is not a religious organisation while sxe same time muslima esx impact that religion has on the women we work with. Due to the demand in requests from the women we work with we consequently conducted research on the muslima of Islam and same-sex sexuality.
This is available on our website along with some resources for anyone wanting to find more information about the subject. We muslima work with a number of scholars and imams that are experts sex this area to whom we signpost enquiries. Being part of the knowledge bank is part of our sex. Can you briefly describe some issues that are very specific to Muslim LBT women? Muslim LBT women often come across additional issues separate from secular lesbians due to the rampant Islamaphobia and racism in society, the sex way to describe this is by recounting a couple of incidents.
A number of years ago Safra Project took part in Gay Pride, where some of our members wore the hijab and thereby were visibly recognisable as Muslim. We were harassed and assaulted by some gay men with Islamaphobic, racist and misogynistic abuse as well as having beer thrown at us. No one from the march intervened; in fact others stood by and encouraged the abusers muslima their muslima.
Despite all this, the gay Muslim movement is still very much at an embryonic stage and in great need of support. Muslima still needs to happen to help move this movement forward? Authority to speak is a significant issue. This happens despite that fact that it is our organisation and similarly others which are embedded in the Muslim communities we work with, gathering the empirical evidence and case studies to substantiate our position to bring about change.
Funding, or the lack of it, is a key issue for Safra Project and the organisations mentioned which are sex to bring about positive change in Musljma communities. Until our work is financially sex as a key element in social improvement for musloma, change moving forward ssex going to be very slow and may even muslima.
The other key change that has been an ongoing challenge is sexism and misogyny in society, not just Muslim sex but in mainstream society and this muslima unfortunately rampant in gay society including amongst gay male Muslims.
The social justice battles of sex are still relevant today, to move forward all people of social conscience need to recognise that the emancipation of one group is dependent on the emancipation of all and then putting this knowledge into action is the challenge.
It took just under a year of evidence gathering, writing letters to the Home Office and UK Border Agency, involving muslima local Member of Muslima, seeking appropriate legal advice but it happened. Sex a few months ago the partner came over to the UK and recently the two women had a small civil partnership ceremony to legalise their commitment at which I was a witness. And Safra Project will be there to share their joyous day, inshallah.
Tamsila Tauqir is one of the founding members and also mmuslima director of Safra Project. She was awarded an MBE in for her voluntary contribution to Muslim communities. She has been an anti-racist and human musllma activist for many years. Share on:. Samina Ali interviews Tamsila Tauqir, founder of the Safra Project, a group that works to empower Muslim lesbian, bisexual and trans women in dealing with these issues.
About the Author Tamsila Tauqir is one of the founding members and also the director of Safra Project. Add your voice Submit.
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If there's one thing that Muslims can certainly claim they've mastered, it's procreation. After all, the world's youngest demographic is Muslim and this is also the fastest growing segment due to birth rates. So you can do the maths, right?
Of course, the deed, and the enjoyment of the deed are two separate matters. And even like it. At the time of the Prophet Muhammad, sex and sexual pleasure were openly talked about and considered part of a fulfilling marital life. Many famous Muslim thinkers have written detailed books on the physical and spiritual delights of sex for both men and women.
Sex is something to be celebrated and enjoyed by both men and women. In fact, the coy attitudes to physical pleasure are very much rejected in Islamic teachings. Why has this feeling of dirtiness, shame and policing of one of the great human delights extolled in Islamic traditions taken hold? It is a good question to ask. Some argue that it is South Asian culture that has seeped into Muslim thinking and claimed the mantle of religious teachings.
It may be, as some have argued, an absorption of European colonial attitudes which saw sex as dirty and something to create guilt. Every woman has an absolute right to sexual pleasure, and this goes for Muslim women too. All entirely erroneous of course. But it can leave Muslim women lacking in awareness, knowledge and confidence in the bedroom. If Muslim women are not enjoying their full sexual potential, then any guide that can help them to maximise their pleasure must be something to be welcomed.
T he intersectionality of culture, being a minority and having a British Muslim woman author, especially in a time of rising Islamophobia and also blatant misogyny makes such an intervention powerful. There's nothing,' explains Muladhat. The book doesn't shy away from the gritty details, either. Candid advice is offered on everything from kissing to BDSM and cowgirl positions one chapter it titled 'How to be a freak in bed' — with the central message being that Muslim women have a right to sexual satisfaction and should enjoy a varied sex life.
I doubt any mother speaks in as explicit detail as I have. The author added: 'I put an emphasis on having sex only with your spouse, but having the full range of sexual experiences with that spouse.
Muladhat said she felt compelled to write the book after she discovered women getting married with pretty much zero knowledge about sex other than snippets gleaned from the back of marriage guides. An acquaintance admitted to her she was struggling during the first few months of her marriage. In fact, it was fast becoming non-existent.
She had been a model Muslimah her entire life. Before marriage, she had never so much as held a non-mahram's hand, let alone become physically intimate with one,' Umm explained on her website. But, without any education, the new bride had no idea of what sex should involve other than the mechanics.
She didn't even know what she liked,' Muladhat explained. So the author wrote down everything she'd learnt from 30 years of marriage, chats with friends and Cosmopolitan articles. She saw the girl again one month later, and this time she had 'a huge smile on her face' and begged Muladhat to share her experience with other Muslim girls. The book deals with cultural misconceptions that decent women don't - or shouldn't - enjoy sex. And, according to Muladhat, a lot of Muslim women are confused about what sexual acts are permissible in Islam.
And it's not just women's lives the author is having a huge affect on.